Since
I arrived, I’ve been struggling to find out how college is different from
home. Much of it seems the same—daily practices,
activities, and schoolwork are relatively easy transitions. I’ve found that the real difference lies in
the people who you’re with. No longer
are you living at home with your family, you’re in a dorm with your peers. You live together, eat together, study
together, and sleep together.
Yesterday,
for the first time in my life, I was apart from my family for Rosh
Hashanah. I was raised Jewish; in fact,
I attended Jewish day school for 9 years.
I’m well educated in the Hebrew language as well as the verses of the
Bible. I’ve studied the Talmud and
learned about the countless traditions of the Jewish people.
After
I graduated from Krieger Schechter, I went on to a high school with a much
different demographic. While mostly
Jewish, the school was littered with liberal thinkers. The concentration of agnostics and atheists
was overwhelming. Here I was exposed to
opinions and beliefs far different from anything I had previously
encountered. I was forced to question
everything I knew, or rather, thought I knew.
Over
the next few years I developed a very strong Jewish identity. I am by no means religious, and my observance
has undoubtedly decreased in that time.
Yet, I still feel an incredible connection to the Jewish nation.
This
brings me to Sunday night. The campus
Chabad house was hosting a Rosh Hashanah dinner for students and I decided that
I would like to go. I asked my roommate
if he wanted to join me, but he declined.
The Jets game was on, and besides, he didn’t believe in religion. So I went, and he didn’t. That was the end of that…or so I thought.
When
I got back he asked how it was. I said
it was fine. He proceeded to ask if I
believed in god. I said no. So why did I
go? I tried to explain to him that while
I don’t believe in the Jewish religion per se, I find great comfort in the
community aspect of Judaism. He thought
that was bullshit, and I agreed to disagree.
We called it a night and went to sleep.
And so begun Late Night Philosophy.
The
next morning, he hadn’t finished. He
couldn’t believe I bought into this religion nonsense. As we walked to class, I tried to explain
myself once again, citing my religious background and elaborating once again on
my personal belief. I thought I was actually
getting somewhere when our conversation was cut off by the fork in the road
between our destinations. I had a
feeling it wasn’t over though.
The
rest of the day we avoided the topic, but around 1:30 we climbed into bed, and
we started over once again. After we
finished our debate on religion, my roommate conceded that my points were
interesting, even though he still fundamentally disagreed. From there, we moved on to discuss topics
even more abstract. From the meaning of
life, to death, and even love, we were really on a roll. Finally, at 3 A.M. we called a quits. He gave me a preview of his theory on space
and time, but we agreed to save it for another night.
In
the end, college hasn’t been that different from home. I eat, sleep, go to class, and do
homework. I hang out with my friends and
play basketball in the gym. Even my
Chipotle servings per week haven’t been noticeably affected. But there’s something about getting into bed
every night and knowing that a conversation’s awaiting that makes every day a
little more exciting. So I urge you to
give it a try. Ask your roommate the
tough questions. You’re not going to
agree on everything—that’s the beauty of it.
Step outside the classroom and away from your books; there might be even
greater learning opportunities waiting for you just across the room.
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