Yesterday
marked the recurrence of an annual event that takes place not only at the Park
School but at high schools across the country. Yesterday was our Senior Skip Day. It’s not a date that can be found on the Upper School
calendar, and it’s not even the same day every year, but it is a tradition that
has been going on for a good while.
At this point, Senior Skip Day is pretty widely accepted as a normal
happening, something to be expected.
The
idea is simple; one spring day the seniors sleep in, skip class, and go do
something fun together. This year
we decided to go to Oregon Ridge for a tranquil afternoon hanging out in the
beautiful park. A vast majority of
the grade was in attendance, and it was a nice way to spend one of our last
days together as a class.
It
was only after school hours that things began to go awry. For most, the day went as planned; we
left Oregon Ridge and continued on with our lives. For the senior boys’ lacrosse players, it was not such a
pleasant experience. They arrived
at practices promptly only to be informed that the Athletic Department had
received notice of the players’ absence from classes and they would therefore
be unable to partake in practice.
Moreover, the team rule is that if players fail to practice the day
before a game, they are penalized by having to sit on the bench for the entire
first quarter of the game the following day.
Of
course this is just one example of a Senior Skip Day mishap. It is no secret that many faculty
members have serious reservations with the annual holiday. Some teachers have even been known to
give tests or big assignments intentionally scheduled for that day. I understand why teachers would have
qualms with the tradition; however, I sometimes question how teachers portray
their opinions about the day. Many
are okay with it and simply ask that students are caught up on the homework,
but others take it to an extreme.
As
far as I heard, the Athletic Department’s decision to ban lacrosse players from
practice was hinged on complaints from teachers who reported the absences. Perhaps the course of action would be
acceptable, except none of the other students received such treatment. In fact, the varsity baseball players
were all allowed to practice with no questions asked. Meanwhile, seniors went off to play rehearsals and mock
trial practices and not a word was said.
Yet, for some reason, the lacrosse players were punished for partaking
in a class-wide event.
In
the end, Senior Skip Day is something that is going to happen no matter what
the teachers, administration, or even coaches do about it. The argument here is not about whether
or not the day should take place; it is about how we deal with it. I’d like to think that at a place like
Park, teachers would look out for their students and give them the benefit of
the doubt. It seems anal to look
down upon seniors for skipping a day of classes to hang out with just 2 weeks
remaining in their high school career.
Sure athletes could have come into school at 1 o’clock, showed up at
their last class, undoubtedly empty of students, and gone to practice, but,
does that really sound more meaningful than spending a gorgeous day outside at
a park with their classmates?
So
I guess my last point is really directed at the faculty; after all, you guys
are the ones who make this community what it is. Please don’t fret over Senior Skip Day. It’s not going anywhere. By punishing students the damage is
simply twofold. Right or wrong,
it’s one day. So let it happen, or
if not, at least don’t discriminate when lashing out consequences. As students, that’s all we can ask for.
Isn't the "point" of senior skip day that it's kinda mischievous and not sanctioned by the administration?
ReplyDeleteI wouldn't say that's the 'point'. Certain privileges come with being a senior; that's just how things work. When you're the oldest sibling, you get to sit up front. Done. Skip day is just one of those things--like senior day before we leave for projects--that is not just tradition but a ritualistic rite of passage. No skip day-intolerant teacher thinks that he or she is actually going to help prevent a senior skip day next year, which is why it's absurd that they use it as means for punishment.
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